Communication interpersonnelle
Words like eggs have to be handled with care because once broken they are beyond repair.
Trad. : Les mots, comme les œufs, doivent être manipulé avec précaution car …
« Mignon » (a l’époque de la Renaissance) : enfant pré pubère qui était le jouet sexuel des pédophiles.
Since words are evocative in nature, we connote them, and so does the recipient (=interlocuteur).
The more our communication code suits, the recipient’s communication code, the better the message will be conveyed (= transmis, véhiculés).
Relational > MENTAL PICTURE
Perceiving,
EXPERIENCE
Emotionnal > feeling, living
Connoting
Informational > referring, denoting
DEFINITION
Each time we have to use the expressions « super, extra », it means that the word that follows is too weak.
Vocabulaire :
To support = soutenir.
A supporter = un souteneur = un mac.
A tape = un ruban.
Exemple : word « DOG »An animal – tail – ferry 4-legged
A pet – cuddling – fidel/loyal – obedient – playful – noisy - nuisance
Irish terrier
Milou
Snoopy
Pit bull
We use a word and we get a mental picture about the word.
This mental picture makes us having a feeling.
We have to acknowledge that the other one may have another opinion about our own opinion on a word.
* Be careful with words !!
The word experience is too short
Life experience
(= le vécu).
About subject
Experiment
About object
On a tendance à vouloir calquer nos sentiments sur les autres … et vice versa
= très grosse erreur
* we have our own feelings & our own opinions
So, when we have a debate, it is really important to agree on définitions.
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